Do you have someone in your life who thinks they are the center of the universe? Someone who expects you to cater to their every whim and demand, without ever considering your feelings or needs? Someone who believes they are always right, always superior, and always entitled to special treatment? If so, congratulations!
You have a narcissist in your life.

Narcissists are people who have an inflated sense of self-importance and a lack of empathy for others. They are often charming, charismatic, and confident, but underneath their facade, they are insecure, fragile, and needy. They crave admiration and validation from others, but they also resent and envy them. They manipulate, exploit, and abuse others to get what they want, but they also play the victim and blame others for their problems. They are masters of projection, denial, and gaslighting.

So how do you deal with such a person? Well, you have two options: you can either try to change them or you can change yourself. Spoiler alert: the first option is impossible. Narcissists rarely change, because they don't think they have a problem. They think everyone else is the problem. They don't see any reason to change their behavior, because it works for them. They get what they want by using others as their supply.

The second option is more realistic and more healthy. You can change yourself by setting boundaries, protecting your self-esteem, and detaching from the narcissist's drama. You can learn to recognize their tactics and not fall for their lies. You can stop taking their criticism personally and stop trying to please them. You can focus on your own happiness and well-being, and not let them drain your energy and joy.

Of course, this is easier said than done. Dealing with a narcissist can be exhausting, frustrating, and painful. It can take a toll on your mental and emotional health. It can make you doubt yourself and your reality. It can make you feel lonely and isolated. It can make you wonder if you are the crazy one.

But you are not crazy. You are not alone. And you are not helpless. You can survive and thrive despite the narcissist's presence in your life. You can reclaim your power and your dignity. You can find support and healing from others who understand what you are going through. You can live a life that is not dictated by the narcissist's wishes.

You can be free.

But until then, here are some tips on how to deal with narcissistic people in the meantime:

- Play along with their delusions:
Narcissistic people love to talk about themselves. They believe that they are the center of the universe, and everything revolves around them. So, why not indulge them? Listen to their stories, nod along, and pretend to be fascinated. But remember, you're just playing along. You're not actually interested in their boring, self-centered life.

- Use sarcasm:
Narcissistic people have a way of making everything about them. They'll take credit for your work, dismiss your ideas, and belittle your achievements. But don't let them get to you. Use sarcasm to put them in their place. For example, when they say, "I'm the best at everything," you can reply, "Well, I'm sure you're the best at being a narcissist."

- Set boundaries:
Narcissistic people have no respect for boundaries. They'll invade your personal space, demand your time and attention, and expect you to cater to their every need. But you don't have to put up with it. Set clear boundaries and stick to them. If they try to cross the line, remind them that your wish is not their command.

- Laugh it off:
Finally, the best way to deal with narcissistic people is to laugh at their ridiculousness. Don't take them too seriously or let them get under your skin. Remember that they are insecure and unhappy people who need constant validation from others. Don't give them what they want or need. Instead, give yourself what you want or need: a good laugh.